Close to perfect

It was as close to perfect as any day could be. All the food was prepared, the guests said they enjoyed it, the weather was nice, the music was good, we had some fine wine and I was surrounded by those I love, minus my son Shane. As with most parties in this area I live in, it was governed by the weather conditions. We started sitting on the back verandah in the shade, but it was too hot. We moved the tables out to the lawn in the shade and stayed there while we had lunch - which wasn't served till 3pm. When the sun started going down, it turned a bit chilly and the mosquitoes made us move to the front verandah where it was a little more sheltered.

My sisters did the washing up, Hanno and Kerry packed up the tables and brought the chairs inside again and I was left with our guests sitting, talking and laughing. I loved how my family treated me - they showed me love and respect and made sure I enjoyed every second of my party. I really am blessed to have a loving family and such fine friends.

All in all it was a wonderful way to celebrate this milestone of 60 birthdays. I want to thank each and every one of you who sent their best wishes. It really did make my day to receive all those little messages of love. Thank you.

Hanno, my step son, Jens, and son, Kerry.

Kerry and my sister, Tricia.

My sister, Kathleen, who hates having her photo taken.

After the first round of diners - the lunch table.

The last of the guests left at 6.30pm, Kerry went out to visit some friends and the rest of us - Tricia, Kathleen, Hanno and I fell in a heap. Everyone was in bed and the house was quiet by 10pm. How different that is from those wild days of my younger birthdays. I'm really pleased I experienced those loud and late parties of my young years but even happier I have eased into a celebration like yesterday.