Changing to a simple sustainable way of living can be difficult if you’re swimming against the tide of mainstream thinking. Many of your friends, and maybe your family too, will think you’re a bit strange, but don’t let that stop you. You will be leading the way, they just don’t know it yet.
If there are many aspects of your life that need changing, how do you decide which ones to concentrate on first? I’d suggest you start with the easy ones and work your way towards the more difficult tasks.
One of the easier things you can do is to learn how to read your electricity and water meters.
WATER METERS
http://www.nt.gov.au/powerwater/factsheets/read_water_meter.html
http://www.actewagl.com.au/advice/watermeter.aspx
http://www.dubbo.nsw.gov.au/public/content/default.asp?xcid=703
ELECTRICITY METERS
http://www.actewagl.com.au/advice/elecmeter.aspx
http://www.powercor.com.au/infocentre/electricity_meters_howto_read.htm
http://www.ergon.com.au/my_account/meter_access.asp?yf=true&platform=PC
Make a page on your computer to record your readings and plan a strategy to reduce your consumption. Do it quietly, then show it to your family when you have a couple of weeks of meter readings. Make sure you record things like washing days, visitors, as well as the use of power tools, electronic toys etc
Grow some of your own food. You will notice a difference.
Another thing you could easily do in a quiet way is to change the way you shop. Start stockpiling and shopping at Aldi. Grow some of your own food, make your own bread, cook from scratch. You’ll notice a difference. Maybe you could put money you save towards your mortgage or a family holiday. Either way, your move towards a more simple life will benefit you and your family without them even being aware of the change.
A couple of weeks ago we had to drive a 300km round trip to a friend's funeral. We didn't take food or drink with us, I'm not sure why we didn't, we usually do, but maybe the thought of laying a friend to rest was the only thing on our minds as we set out that morning. On the way home we were looking for somewhere to have lunch and chose Gloria Jeans as the best of the bad bunch. I won't relate the entire experience, suffice to say when we left, to our shame, we left behind a big pile of "disposable" napkins, plates, coffee cups etc. I vowed never to return and to make sure we always travelled prepared. I've made a promise to myself since then to never buy water or food while I'm out. I've done a lot of travelling and had quite a few bad food experiences on my travels, so it's no great sacrifice.
Yesterday I worked at my voluntary job. It's only 15 minutes up the road but I took everything I needed to sustain me throughout the day. I made my backyard sandwich - mashed up boiled egg with a touch of mayo, salt and pepper, red and green lettuce, freshly picked. I roasted some cashews, put them in one of the small containers, erm, side cars and made a fresh garden salad for the other side car. I added a slice of the date and walnut loaf I made on Sunday and took a thermos of black organic tea. Today I'm making two special napkins to take to work so I won't have to use a tissue like I did yesterday. The lunch was perfect. Later in month, as it gets colder, I'll take soup and other warm leftovers.
Not only did I feel great about having a varied and fresh lunch that I knew was local, it also cost a fraction of what I would have paid for a sandwich at the local coffee shop. Add all those sandwiches up over the course of a year, and it's quite a saving.
Here are some sources of BYO lunch inspiration:
http://veganlunchbox.blogspot.com/
http://www.fabulousfoods.com/features/brnbag/brnbag.html
http://www.globalgourmet.com/food/egg/egg0996/bagtips.html
ADDITION: Alice weighs around 22 kgs and she gets two cups of this food per day.
The most frequently asked question I get about simplifying is: "How do I start?" Of course there is no one answer to that question because the reasons for wanting to change are as different as the ways of life we all come from. However, the way I think it works is that you start by doing two things, and often many paths open up as a result.
No 1 ... START ORGANISING
I’ve thought about this a lot as I came from a background of chaos, mad creativity, no budgets and spontaneity. I thrived on pressure and loved change. But after living for a few years with lists, organised thoughts and routines that work, I’ve left the disorder behind and have embraced a more settled and mature system.
Your first organisational task will be to write down your goals. What is it you want your new life to be? This in itself might show you what your next step is.
Decide what reskilling you need. What do you want to do in your new way of living? Do you want to bake bread? Do you want to start cooking from scratch? Do you want to learn how to shop differently? Do you need to write up a budget? Whatever it is, find someone to teach you, or find the information online and start reskilling yourself.
Start making lists and get yourself a house journal. A house journal is just a ring binder (or recycled folder) where you keep all the info you find to help you use your new life. Keep all that info together so you know where it is.
Declutter. Start going through your house and give away, sell or donate everything you don’t want or need.
No 2 ... STOP SPENDING
The more spending you do everyday the faster you’ll be confronted with whether you’re strong enough to stop right now.
Check out my budget posts in May. Do up a budget for yourself. There are budget forms to help you here in the download section.
Don’t be scared of budgeting, it is NOT a restriction, it frees up your money so that you know exactly what it is you can spend and what you need to pay on your regular bills. I have reduced the amount I spend each month dramatically. We spend about $75 a week for two of us for all our food and groceries. My next step is to cut that to $60 a week.
Budgeting gets easier the more you do it. You make a bit of a game out of it and try to beat the advertisers and supermarkets at their own game. But the main decision you have to make at this time is to stop spending, all you should be spending money on now is your rent/mortgage, food, transport and education. It’s a decision that could change your life, and who knows where that will lead. Good luck.
We are separated from our food now. Many people are happier to eat a burger of unidentifiable meat, soggy lettuce and “dressing” than they are eating a fresh backyard tomato that’s had a bug on it. People like their food to be sealed up and sterile.
In many respects we are separating ourselves and our kids from nature. Things common in the past are no longer taught – constructing and flying kites, knitting, camping out, flower and leaf pressing, collecting eggs, bird watching, growing sprouts, looking at the stars at night, spotlighting possums and a hundred other things are rare rather than common now.
I wish it hadn’t changed.
In my endeavour to change what I can change, I tell everyone who stands still long enough in my real life about how to make their own laundry detergent. If they ask, I’ll tell then how to make lemon cordial, jam and soap. When I knit in public, I’m amazed at how many people watch me. Sometimes a quick demonstration is carried out. We need to teach each other whatever we can so these skills aren’t lost.
Is anyone else doing this? Are you trying to teach what you know?
We had a wonderful time at the show. We spent the first two hours on our stall trying to encourage people to fill in a feedback form for the Council and explaining when our new building will be built. When we left there, we went to the craft hall where we found jumpers, rugs, hats, tapestry, cakes, slices, relish, jam, lemon and passionfruit butters and many, many flowers.
It's show day! Actually it's today and tomorrow but today is the day H and I go. Our local show is celebrating its 70th show year so everything is set for two days of dairy cows, chooks, show jumping, wood cutting and country cooking, right in the heart of Maleny.
It's just after 5am but I've already got bread on the rise, I've showered and washed my hair, I'm charging the camera battery and I have my show program and water bottle ready to pack into my basket. I am excited. : ))
The main reason we're going this year is to man the Neighbourhood Centre stall. It's really the community bus but we'll have a table, chairs, laptop with Powerpoint presentation and flyers ready to give to anyone who wanders within earshot of us. We want to promote our wonderful organisation so that all the newer residents and the more established ones, will know we offer support, cups of tea, food and a willingness to listen without judging when times get tough. We've been given $1.5 million for a new building so we'll also have a display of the plans and answer any questions people might have. H and I will do that for two hours and then someone else will step in. Over the course of the two show days, all the centre volunteers will be there so it's a wonderful opportunity to show our town what it is we do at the Neighbourhood Centre.















