13 February 2025

An authentic look at daily life here — unstaged and real

Most days Hanno was outside happily working in the fresh air.

It may surprise you to know that I started reading my book, Down to Earth, yesterday - the first time since I wrote it 13 years ago.  I had lent it to my neighbor, and when she returned it, I started reading, expecting to find surprises. Instead, I realised the words were still familiar—as if they were etched into my memory. As I flipped through the pages, I was reminded of how important it was for me to share that knowledge with others. The principles in Down to Earth changed my life, and I truly believed they could do the same for others. After just 30 minutes of reading, I put the book down, reassured that its message still holds true: we can slow down and reshape our lives, one step at a time.


Homemade rye bread, this is my favourite bread, but I also make white toast milk bread, ancient grains bread and wholemeal bread.


A view of my kitchen with a carrot cake, just baked, waiting to cool and be iced.


Thumb print butter biscuits with homemade orange marmalade filling.


Kartoffelpuffer - German potato pancakes, one of Hanno's favourites.


Fast quiche made with egg, onion, garlic, asparagus and phyllo pastry.


Bread and butter cucumbers. A staple in our fridge. 

The most powerful force in my life now, and probably has been since I surrendered myself to a simpler life 25 years ago, is housework. You can't buy a simple home, you have to make it and remake it over and over again as it changes with you. It may be repetitive, but it’s never quite the same from day to day. More importantly, it enables the life I want to live and provides a sense of stability amid life’s uncertainties. Maintaining a daily routine keeps my home clean and organized, which in turn allows me to handle unexpected challenges more easily. Today, for example, I’ve already made my bed, prepared food for Gracie for the next two weeks, watered the plants, and cleaned the verandah. I have bread rising, rice portioned and frozen for future meals, and later, I’ll tend to the garden, prune plants, and bring in fresh flowers for the kitchen table.



Comfrey - this makes the best fertiliser.


Glen Large - a warm climate garlic.







This week, I’ve been sorting through thousands of photos, and I’d love to share some with you. They bring back wonderful memories, and I hope they illustrate just how fulfilling and meaningful this way of life can be. When I first started my blog, I wanted to offer an authentic look at our daily life—unstaged and real. At the time, simple living blogs didn’t exist in the way they do now, so I was surprised by how many people connected with my words. If someone had told me back then that a blog about housework, saving money, and growing food would resonate with so many, I wouldn’t have believed it. But over the years, this space has become much more than just a blog—it has fostered a community of like-minded people seeking a simpler, more intentional life.



Another staple in my fridge is tomato relish. All these preserves are delicious and much cheaper than anything you'll buy at the supermarket.


When you start to slow down and simplify, start collecting jars and bottles.

I was fortunate to earn an income from writing while embracing a simpler life, and today, working from home is more accessible than ever. It’s a rewarding way to live—where work and home life seamlessly intertwine. I often find that my best ideas come to me while mopping the floor or harvesting tomatoes. At the moment, I'm thinking of doing some Zoom workshops because I need to earn money for repairs to the front verandah. I thought they'd be covered by my Home Care Plan but it will be a long time before I'll be in a position to do the repairs that way.  The workshops will cost $75 for a 90 minute workshop on Zoom. You don't need to download any software for this, I just send you a link. If you're interested in this, let me know. To start off, I could talk about our topic for 15 minutes then we'd have an open discussion about any problems relating to the topic you might be having at your home.  I can answer all sorts of questions regarding gardening, starting a garden, keeping chickens, baking, preserving, cooking from scratch, saving money, writing a blog or a book, simplifying life and a whole lot more. If enough people are interested, I'll work out some times for us to get together. I look forward to your feedback. 




We always kept heirloom chickens and unless more people seek them out they’ll become another casualty of modern life.  This chook is a Frizzle.



This is the chook house alongside a native fig, a pecan tree and a lemon tree.

I feel incredibly grateful for the connections I’ve made online. In a world that can often feel disconnected and unpredictable, I find comfort in knowing that, from my sewing room, I can share my thoughts and hear from others who share similar values. There was a time when I focused more on life outside my home, without fully appreciating what was right in front of me. But as I slowed down, I began to see the value in what we had—our home, each other, our backyard garden, and the ability to sustain ourselves. Writing about this way of life has been the unexpected gift that has made my calm, home-centered days even more fulfilling and meaningful.

SHARE:

7 comments

  1. Lovely photos Rhonda, a nice day and a few showers to keep everything green make a wonderful post to read. I would love to attend your workshop. Everytime I see the quiche photo I promise myself I will make it😁 maybe next season.Regards Bernie

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks Bernie. I hope you make the quiche, I'm pretty sure you'll like it. What workshop topics are you interested in?

      Delete
  2. This life is something of quality that will surely keep one away from diseases and psychologists since it is psychotherapy in itself.
    For me it is the perfect combination!!
    Beautiful garden, excellent cooking,
    the bread looks successful and of the foods I choose the quiche.
    Thank you very much!!

    ReplyDelete
  3. Hi Rhonda, I’d love to attend a session talking about all of your listed topics. Are you planning on doing a session for each topic or to combine them all within the 90 minutes? A conversation with like-minded people sounds wonderful.

    It’s great to hear you are starting to do a lot of work in the garden again and trying out some raised beds. We’re all looking forward to your garden updates and watching it grow.

    Hoping you and Gracie are keeping busy and are finding joy in each day.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Dana. The topics I wrote here are just suggestions, I'm waiting to see what the response will be and what people are interested in. I wanted to do groups of ten because then everyone will get a chance to talk freely. The number of groups of ten will be up to the interest of readers. I guess if there only only a few people interested, I could do a couple of workshops combining several of the topics together.

      Delete
  4. Hi Rhonda, I realize I am late commenting on this post, but I am trying to catch up. I didn't realize you were still posting, some how I am not receiving you blog post notifications in my email. I just wanted to say that your book changed my life. I read your book at a time when I had left my career in Theatre as a costume designer to care for my mom when she was diagnosed wit Alzheimer's. I was living on a far less salary and was needing to find a way to go from living alone to living with my mom and coving her medical expenses. Your book was an answer to a call of my heart that I didn't ever know I was calling out for. The way you thought and lived took me back to how my mom grew up and my grandparents lived. I must have read your book over and over I don't know how many times as I adjusted my live to living with knowing my needs and figuring out that my wants were, for the most part not needed in my life. Little did I know that this life would become a permanent way of life that I have contentedly embraced as I said good by to my mom, took on caring for my dad when he also was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, moving him in with me. In the meantime I was diagnosed with some debilitating chronic illnesses so that I had to go on disability. Your book that I had read and began to put into practice almost 5 years before has helped me survive on a very small disability income and be the most content I have been in my life. Thank you so much for writing this! I just wanted you to know how much it has changed my life! Jackie Mullen

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hi Jackie. The email notifications stopped because Google stopped the service to everyone. I'm sorry to hear about your parents diagnosed with Alzheimer's. That must have been such a difficult period for you and I'm SO pleased Down to Earth helped you get through it. I hope your health has improved and you're finding life a bit easier now. Thank you for telling me about your experiences. That is something I'll remember because that was my main hope for the book. xx

      Delete

I welcome readers' comments. However, this blog never publishes business links or advertisements. If you're operating a business and want to leave your link here, I will delete your comment .

Blogger Template by pipdig