When you think about it, the only time we working and middle class people get to do exactly what we want everyday is when we retire or when we're on holiday/vacation. I guess we have a fairly free and easy life in childhood and as a teenager, but then there are people telling us what to do and when to do it. Retirement, whenever it happens, is all about freedom. It's the freedom to do exactly what you choose to do each day, the freedom of time, and even though the weekly wage stops, if you've gone through several simple decades, and arrive at retirement's door with no debt, no mortgage, a roof over your head, money in the bank, some investments or a pension, you'll be fine. There may be a few upheavals and you'll have to get used to a slower pace to your days but life in your 60s and I'm hoping beyond it as well, is wonderful. I have never been happier than I am now.
Things are different when you retire. Many of your expenses drop, your priorities change and you'll have time to bargain shop and to make a lot of the things you used to pay someone to make for you. Depending on where you live and what benefits your government gives its seniors, you'll have to look at your budget now and make all the changes necessary. For instance, in Australia, when you're on an old age pension, you get goverment discounts on your property rates, ambulance, telelphone, pharmacy costs etc. Hanno and I decided to keep our private health insurance, even though it's very expensive, it gives us peace of mind to know that we can get medical help, choose our own doctors and go to hospital if we need to without having to go on a waiting list.
Before you sit down to redo your budget, find out exactly what you're entitled to and claim it - it's one of the many reasons you've been paying tax all these long years - now you get a few pay offs. There are other benefits too - just yesterday I parked my car in a seniors parking spot for the very first time. It was close to the front door of the place I was going to. I felt like a bit of a fraud to tell you the truth, but the sign said "senior parking" I am a senior so I parked there. Nice. Check out the businesses in your area as well because many give seniors' discounts.
YOUR DAILY WORK
In the months before you retire, start thinking about what you'll do on a daily basis. If you've always gone out to work, you might find it difficult to adjust but if you decide on your activities, whether they be home-based, volunteer-based or out in the community at a club or library, if you have something planned, you won't be sitting there on the first day wondering what to do. As you all know, Hanno and I are as busy as we want to be. We decided that we would use our retirement to provide as much for ourselves as we could. That involves all sorts of home-based tasks like maintenance, gardening, cooking, baking, recycling and mending. Living like this gives us variety and interest to our days and even though we've been working away here for several years now, it still feels fresh. We take breaks whenever we want them, we take days off and sometimes we take ourselves out in the car for an outing. It's a peaceful and rewarding life full of the enrichment that comes from being self reliant and independent.
Wash day for Alice.
Of course we do some voluntary work too. I am the coordinater of our local neighbourhood centre and Hanno drives the bus there. He collects food in the bus from the Foodbank in Brisbane and takes our seniors out on shopping trips and excursions. If you have the chance to do some voluntary work, grab the opportunity with both hands because, in my experience, it has been rewarding and life changing.
YOUR HISTORY
Pass on what you know. I believe it is my duty as an older woman to pass on what I know to those younger. Older people are our connection to the past and if we don't tap into that, many skills and memories will be lost. If you still have great grandparents, grandparents or parents living, ask them about YOUR history. Even if you're not interested now, I guarantee you there will come a day when you will be interested and if your loved ones are gone then, you will never know. Write down what they tell you so you can pass your family history on to your children.
And speaking of history, get rid of everything in your home that you don't need. Ask your family if they want that second or third set of dinner ware. Donate old clothes to charity. Clear out your cupboards so you can let more life in.
YOUR HEALTH
Stay active and look after your health because things can come back to bite you in your 60s and 70s. I have been lucky so far and haven't had any health issues and I am confident that I'll be out in the backyard when I'm in my 80s, yelling out: "Hanno bring me the camera please. There are new birds here!" Keep cooking from scratch and eating wholesome food. Even if it's only one of you, it's important that you eat well.
Many people have an unrealistic idea of old age. They think we oldies are helpless and feeble and not capable of much. Well, I'm here to tell you that the majority of us are just fine and dandy, thank you. We may not be able to lift what we once did and we may be taking naps in the afternoon (I am), but we're still waking up every morning eager to get stuck in to our tasks and to get as much from the day as we can. Don't be scared of aging. It has many rewards, and retirement, and the freedom that comes with it, is one of life's golden eggs.
PS. Go here and read Sonya's excellent post on learning and losing life skills. I am happy to tell you that Sonya is coming to my home this morning to learn how to knit. No doubt we'll talk of other matters too. We all have to do this. If you know someone who wants to learn something you know how to do, offer to teach. It's the only way.
PS. Go here and read Sonya's excellent post on learning and losing life skills. I am happy to tell you that Sonya is coming to my home this morning to learn how to knit. No doubt we'll talk of other matters too. We all have to do this. If you know someone who wants to learn something you know how to do, offer to teach. It's the only way.
