30 September 2024

Celebrating simplicity and reclaiming control

In our fast-paced, consumer-driven world, we are constantly bombarded with the idea that convenience is key. The allure of shiny, ready-made products - quickly purchased with a swipe or click - seduces us. And yet, there is a deeper, more fulfilling way to live: making things at home rather than buying them. It’s an act of defiance against waste, excess, and the relentless push of consumerism. But more than that, it's a reclaiming of control, a celebration of simplicity, and a mindful exercise in frugality and time management.

At first glance, making things at home seems daunting. "Who has the time?" some might ask. "It's so much easier to buy." These thoughts are born from a culture that equates ease with value. But what if we flipped that equation? What if, instead of measuring value by the time saved, we measure it by the skill earned, the money conserved, and the creativity sparked?



Frugality is often misunderstood as deprivation, but in truth, it’s the art of stretching resources without sacrificing quality of life. It’s not about skimping, but about finding alternatives that enrich your day-to-day existence without spending. Making things at home allows for this kind of smart economy.



The weekly grocery bill can easily spiral out of control if we rely on pre-packaged, pre-made meals. But when we return to the basics, learning to cook from scratch, we find the key to living well within a budget. A loaf of bread, fresh from your own oven, costs a fraction of what you’d pay for a plastic-wrapped loaf, and its aroma fills your kitchen with warmth that no store-bought loaf could deliver. A simple stew, simmered slowly with seasonal vegetables and leftover cuts of meat, stretches ingredients far beyond the limits of fast food.

The same can be said for cleaning products. Store shelves overflow with specialised sprays, powders, and wipes, each promising miraculous results for a price. Yet, with a few household staples like vinegar, baking soda, and essential oils, you can create a multipurpose cleaner that costs pennies, is free of harsh chemicals, and is just as effective.


This is the hemp I used to use for my dish cloths. It was great to knit with but it didn't suit dishcloths - the knives easily cut it.  My go-to yarn is organic cotton. That is easy to knit, it dries quickly and it's soft to the touch.


The satisfaction I feel when I make something for my home far outstrips the feeling I used to get when I bought everything I needed. What I make suits my home better than most commercial products and as a bonus, I feel the warm embrace of self-reliance when I make them. I know it can be difficult to disconnect from the ease of buying pre-made everything but once you settle into to it, home production, moderation and self-reliance delivers long-term, constant contentment.



These are my organic cotton dishcloths.

Making things at home requires an upfront investment of time but it also encourages mindfulness and creativity. When we dedicate time to preparing a meal, mending a piece of clothing, or knitting a dishcloth, we are fully present in the moment. These acts become meditative, pulling us away from the frenzy of daily life and into a slower, more grounded rhythm.

One of the most significant benefits of making things at home is that the skills you develop compound over time. The first loaf of bread may feel like a laborious task, but by the tenth, you’ll have refined your technique and cut the time in half. You may begin by knitting simple scarves, but soon you’ll move on to sweaters, hats, and mittens. The satisfaction that comes from honing a craft and mastering a skill is unmatched by the fleeting joy of purchasing something ready-made.


There’s a profound shift that occurs when you start making things at home. When you’ve invested your time and effort into making something, it holds greater value. You care for it differently, knowing the energy that went into its creation.


In this way, making things at home is a practice in gratitude. It teaches you to honor the resources you have - time, money, and skill - and to use them wisely. It’s a path towards simplicity, sustainability, and self-reliance, where the things you surround yourself with are not just objects, but symbols of care, creativity, and intention.

In the end, making things at home is not just about frugality or time management. It’s about living with purpose, finding joy in the process and crafting a life that values quality over quantity, creativity over consumption, and mindfulness over convenience.

What do you regularly make to use in your home?

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17 comments

  1. I couldn't agree with you more, Rhonda. We live by these principles too, and also wish to encourage your readers to give it a go. As you say, even baby steps and small tweaks can make an impact ... even if stops there. It doesn't have to be an all-or-nothing approach. Keep well.

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  2. I totally agree, Rhonda, every time I use my homemade soap in the shower, I think wow, I actually made this & when I wash dishes & wipe down the bench with my hand knitted dishcloths, it's always in my mind that I made them. To people who don't make things themselves, this probably sounds a bit airy fairy, but you do really feel differently about things you've made.

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  3. Dish cloths! Since first picking up your book 10 years ago it’s been one of the consistent changes for us- I even have family who request I make them for their birthdays or Christmas over the years :)

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  4. I love burning candles but hate the nasties manufacturers use, so I make my own container ones with soya wax & essential oils. I have been making various household cleaners and body potions for years for the same reason, as well as cost, and am about to start soap making too. Household cloths tend to be made from old t-shirts, which I also use to make yarn.Knitting initial face cloths this year for Xmas presents. I quilt and have built quite a stash so use that to make donation quilts, generally with backings from sheets or duvet covers from charity shops & piece the wadding ) batting from leftovers. My husband tends to do the cooking nowadays and is gettybetter at cooking once, eating twice or more, and keeping the freezer stocked. Sent youngest to uni with stock cupboard basics and spices, so that she can easily cook from scratch on a tiny budget. We always run a full load of laundry, to save water & electricity. Now that we live outside town, we try to combine errands to save fuel too.

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  5. You are so right, Rhonda! When I make something for my home , I feel a lot of peace within myself, but also a feeling of security. I feel like I can handel any complicated situation. Take care of yourself

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  6. The first thing that came to mind is that I make dishcloths for use all over the house. I take my old and hole-y bath towels, cut them into squares, stitch a zig zag all around them, and put them into use. When they are smelly or stained, I bleach them. But I run a load of white towels once a week, so the bleaching doesn't happen often. I don't bake bread, but in the winter, I like to do more cooking when I can open the back door and let some cooler breezes in.

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  7. I make my own cards to send to people (yes, I even write letters to encourage others). When I buy the thick stack of card stock, I use the odd colors I don't use for the card and then make my own envelope with that color.
    Love the pretty photos of your house and your continued writing of these Blog posts. Thank you.

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  8. I love the phrase 'smart economy'. I make my own cleaning sprays and air fresheners. I also love making jams, chutneys, liqueurs etc and drying home-grown herbs for use in the Winter. My husband is the family baker

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  9. Thank you for this post! You speak from my heart.

    I bake and cook everything myself and from scratch. I bake my bread with sourdough. We harvest the fruit, vegetables, herbs and some spices in our own garden. There are many things in nature around us that we use as food.

    I know which plants I can use as gentle medicine and I collect them or grow them myself.

    I repair clothes, laundry and electrical appliances. We also do repairs to the house and garden ourselves whenever possible.

    I can knit and sew a little.

    We live happily and frugally.

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  10. Your home is beautifully neat. Your handiwork is so pretty. We live in a world of excess with a lot due to items not passing the test of time (poor quality). I regret all the past wasted money I spent on overbuying material goods. andrea

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  11. Such a soothing read Rhonda. I particularly enjoyed that last paragraph. Your home looks lovely. NZ Ingrid

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  12. Among the things I make at home lately are Make-A-Mix type mixes for the pantry. A bisquick type biscuit mix, hot cocoa, herbal blends and spice mixes, and gravy mixes. Preserving the garden means I can and dehydrate. I usually make my own breads and laundry soap too.

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  13. Learning one thing at a time and then moving onto the next is the way to go. The joy you get from home made is unbeatable. Have made my own laundry powder for 10 years with 3 ingredients and takes 5 mins to blitz up. It alone has saved me thousands over the years.

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  14. I totally agree, I had to change my whole life when I became allergic to chemicals, I was a commercial cleaner for over 30years, so sold the business and started making all my cleaning products using orange peel, vinegar and baking soda. I even now make my own body products shampoo bars and body soaps all made with goats milk.






























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  15. This post really resonates with me. I've managed to keep my grocery bill at $100 a week for years for 3 adults even with the rising costs as all is made from scratch and menu planning. My bill also includes pet food, toilet paper so not all food
    Currently I am crocheting a blanket and thoroughly enjoying that. It is seed sowing time. I refuse to buy a Dahlia tuber at$10 each when a packet of seeds has many plants that flower the first year then form tubers and flower for years.
    My new project is making simple skirts using duvet covers or pretty cotton sheets for fabric.

    Your post was very encouraging Rhonda and after the blanket will come the dishcloths .
    Thank you very much.

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  16. Couldn't agree with you more. My husband and I have recently retired. We are careful with our money, but we never go without anything we want. Watching for bargains and sales at the supermarket, cooking from scratch, buying secondhand, growing some of our own food; we live a life that many people envy.

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  17. I cook / bake from scratch, and have done for 40 years. We can get the flavour we prefer - not too sweet or too salty, not too rich, just the right texture (and plenty of spice)
    I knitted and sewed clothes for my children, and now I’m knitting for my grandchildren. I have also just completed a vest for my daughter.
    When my ironing board cover became threadbare I sewed a new one using and old sheet.
    The family give me clothes and other items that need repairing, or that they want duplicated.
    I have made quilted playmats and bed quilts personalised for my grandchildren’s interests and they treasure them.
    I have recently enjoyed teaching myself tunisian crochet, and I’m making a blanket. This style of crochet is so easy to start and stop between other projects.

    I think I just enjoy the process of combining creativity and usefulness.

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